Creators vs. Wannabe’s
The burning query any aspiring male talent should consider…do you want to be a content creator, or do you want to have sex with content creators?
The distinction between wanting to be a content creator and wanting to have sex with content creators is quite significant, and each path is driven by different motivations and outcomes. Here's an elaboration on the differences:
Being a Content Creator:
1. Creative Passion: Content creators are typically driven by a passion for creating and sharing content. This could be in the form of videos, photos, articles, music, or any other media. They are performers, artists, and business people. Sex is only 5% of a content creator’s job.
2. Entrepreneurial Spirit: Being a content creator often means being an entrepreneur. It involves managing your brand, understanding your audience, and continuously finding ways to engage with and grow your community. This comes with a significant use of one’s time, energy, and financial resources.
3. Hard Work and Consistency: Success in content creation requires consistent effort. This includes planning, producing, editing, and promoting content regularly. Can you set aside hours each day to filming, editing, posting, and managing social media?
4. Skill Development: Content creators often invest time in learning and improving various skills such as videography, photography, writing, marketing, and social media management.
5. Revenue Generation: While some content creators do monetize their sexual appeal, many focus on various revenue streams such as ad revenue, sponsorships, merchandise, and exclusive content for fans.
6. Building a Personal Brand: Content creators work on establishing a unique brand identity, which involves crafting a public persona and maintaining a certain image. This may include creating a website, logo, instagram, twitter, all with a consistent visual theme. Ask yourself: what can I offer that sets me apart from all of the other men in the industry? Is it a uniquew appearance or approach to content creation? Unless you’re literally Girthmaster, I assure you, it’s not going to be your dick.
7. Community Engagement: Engaging with followers, responding to comments, and creating a sense of community are integral parts of being a content creator. Are you comfortable engaging with your audience, regardless of their appearance, gender identity, and sexuality? I have encountered many aspiring straight male creators who are enthusiastic about joining the industry, until they realize that their audience is likely 99% men.
8. Professionalism: Even in adult content creation, there's a level of professionalism required. Yes, the industry is exciting from the outside, but work within the profession is just that: work. Being a “reply guy” on social media and making uninvited sexual comments about other performers is the first major pitfall of aspiring male talent. Your conduct in the community will be closely scrutinized, and this is especially true if you decide to engage with other creators in person. Are you polite? Do you respect boundaries? Do you treat film shoots like professional work, or like a party?
Furthermore, are you willing to deal with the paperwork and legalities of being a content creator, like filling out consent forms, filing an LLC, and tracking expenses for tax purposes?
9. Social Risk: Being a content creator comes with inherent risk. Friends, family, enemies, coworkers, even your 4th grade english teacher or your mechanic could come across your content. Are you willing to accept your face being associated with your content? This could detrimentally affect future relationships, jobs, an attempts at running for public office. Plus, with current advancements in facial recognition, hiding your identity permanently is unlikely. Are you comfortable with the stigma associated with being a sex worker? Sure, you could be a faceless or masked creator, but I can count successful (aka, not requiring a second job) male masked and faceless creators on one hand, with fingers to spare. And if your entire brand is that you wear a mask from Party City, you’re likely not going to gain much traction. You may even receive pushback and resentment from other creators, who may view you as attempting to gain all of the benefits of being a creator without taking on any of the risk.
10. Danger
Being a content creator is inherently dangerous. Adult content creators are harassed, bullied, threatened, stalked, doxxed, and worse. While you think you may be safe as a male content creator, don’t be so quick to assume. Someone from college messages you and threatens to send your content to your family if you don’t give them money. A crazed fan sends a picture of you at your local coffee shop and tells you they can’t wait to wear your skin. A brick with a slur is thrown through your window. These are just a few possibilities of what you may encounter living in the public eye.
Wanting to Have Sex with Content Creators:
1. Fantasy Fulfillment: Some individuals are attracted to the perceived glamour and lifestyle of content creators, often romanticizing or fantasizing about what it would be like to be intimate with them.
2. Admiration and Infatuation: Fans may develop strong feelings of admiration for content creators, which can sometimes translate into a desire for a sexual or romantic relationship.
3. Sexual Attraction: The content created by these individuals, especially in the adult industry, is designed to be sexually appealing, which can naturally lead to fantasies about physical intimacy.
4. Fandom Experience: Being a fan of a content creator can sometimes blur the lines between appreciating their work and developing personal desires related to their idol.
5. Seeking Validation: Some may see having sex with a content creator as a form of validation or status symbol within certain communities or social circles.
6. Misconceptions: There can be a misconception that content creators are more sexually open or available than others, leading to assumptions about their personal lives and sexual availability.
7. Lack of Understanding: Those who desire sexual interactions with content creators might not fully understand or appreciate the amount of work that goes into content creation and may only see the end product.
8. Casual Encounters: This desire might stem from seeking casual sexual encounters without the intention to commit to the responsibilities and challenges that come with being a content creator.
In summary, the difference lies in the intention and involvement in the content creation process. While content creators are focused on their craft and the business around it, those who are interested in the sexual aspect are often drawn to the perceived lifestyle and the fantasy of being with someone in the spotlight. It's important to respect content creators for their work and understand the clear boundaries between professional content and personal desires.
